Tuesday, October 6, 2009

From Five To Four




Some of you may have caught the unfortunately public display of things that have been escalating in The League between one Leaguer and the rest of The League.

What had been escalating over the past several months, finally came to a head the last two days to the point where we did not see how we could carry on together with this person in The League.

What was supposed to be a "break" to clear some heads turned into a permanent break from The League when this person chose to bring our problems public by attacking one of the other League members on Twitter.

The private conversations that ensued thereafter made it clear that their position in The League could not be salvaged and unfortunately neither can the friendships.

This is very sad as we have all been real life friends dating back years. However, the relationship had gradually become an unhealthy and abusive relationship, which is not beneficial to anyone.

We are grateful to Spider for being one of the co-founders of this blog. We appreciate all the work she has put into our blog, both in posts and behind the scenes. We wish her the best in her life and hope that we can all heal from this experience.

We will not be replacing Spider and will not be looking for a new person to fill her spot. We started as a foursome and are now again a foursome.

Please bear with Spank, Rain, Meadow, and myself as we regroup, moving onward and upward to continue the fun that this blog has always been about.

We love all our readers dearly and we thank you for sticking with us during this difficult time.

- Ginger

20 comments:

ivee said...

we will ALWAYS love & support the league...
u can always count on our support... :)
*hugs* to u girls... hang in there...
and looking forward to ur posts...
can i say, TWILIGHTHEADED RULES!!!
lol :P
seriously, LOVE u girls!!!

Susan said...

League, you are the greatest superheroes I have EVER known! I am here for you all! *hug*

Letters to Twilight said...

<3's! we love you!

the league will rise again!

xo
moon

Chrissi said...

What a nicely worded and diplomatic statement. Good work, and I'll definitely be sticking with you in all your foursome glory ;)

Amber said...

It's incredibly difficult when people grow apart, but it's best to recognize when things are no longer healthy. Classy way to deal with a situation that became anything but. Wishing you the best of luck and speedy healing.

twilighter_87 said...

Will always stick with twilightheaded.com, it's the one site I absoulutly check every day :)

good luck in the future...and I'm sure u wil still be the best twilgight related page :)

lynn said...

Sorry to hear you guys had a falling out. I wish everyone the best. I don't always comment but I love the blog and following you all on twitter!

Camille said...

I am so sorry to hear this news . especially with your friendships. that is the hardest part. stay strong everyone :)

dazzledbyhim said...

I'm sorry things didn't work out, but you gals will still be great! Love you all!

kmoye said...

so sad! I hope it works out for the best for everyone.

Bekah said...

hugs you guys. I hate when that happens :(

Spank Ransom said...

@everyone - thanks so much. This has been devestating for us. Not as superheroes but as friends and we hate even more that it happened so publicly but we love you all - our readers and also other bloggers - for your friendship and support.

b_fab115 said...

We love you...we will be right here. Being a Superhero isn't always easy and normal people realize that. We are forever patient and will be here when things are calmed down. We love you guys!

Valerie(momof3crazykids) said...

Sorry to hear about it. I was on twitter at the time but didn't see it. I guess Spider had blocked me or something cause when I looked I was no longer following her.

Hugs to all of you!

bellaflo said...

I'm very sorry to hear about this.
Big tight Emmett hugs to all of you. I haven't been around much but I love you girls.
Hope it gets better!
xo

Flo.

GallifreyReject said...

I am so sorry to hear this news . especially with your friendships. that is the hardest part. stay strong everyone :)

(sorry, it didn't post to my blogger profile:( )

Lori said...

I will miss Spider. But I will continue to watch the fun that goes on with this awesome blog. You ladies are the bomb!

Jamaican Princess said...

This is truly a sad day but I LOVE u guys bunches and your craziness!! even though I dont comment much it doesnt mean that I dont read. I think everyone will miss Spider. It is truly unfortunate what has happened but life gos on. PEACE. LOVE. TWILIGHT-HEADED.

Wheaty's Girl Creations hearts twilight! said...

I had no clue...wow! *hugs*

Rob's Swiss Miss said...

Wow...this is one of those times that I'm thankful to be slightly behind the trend...I'm not big on the Twitter scene so I missed all the madness (kind of glad I did). In any event, drama + friends is never a good recipe and it's always difficult for all involved. Your post was well worded and I wish you all luck and healing in Real Life.

That being said, you SuperGals rock and The Twiangle <3's you all!